Loneliness. Sadness. Numbness.

As a human being, we have all experienced some feeling of loneliness, sadness, and numbness. As an adoptee I have experienced those emotions to a level that is so high that if I were to attempt to rate it on a scale from 1 to 10; it would be a 50, if not higher.

Number One

He was the first guy I ever really liked. He was my child hood friend. We lived right down the street from each other and we would always play games, go exploring in the woods behind my house, terrorize insects together, we created a lot of memories together that I still have and remember.

Relationships

Hello everyone~ I hope you're all doing well. Recently I started to think about my relationships. My relationships with peers, family members, coworkers, every one. It was very interesting to me.

Quotes

Ever just stumble upon quotes that you see and realize that it was something that you needed to read? Well it's happen to me many times. Here are some that I recently stumbled upon that apply to my life right now.

It's Okay to Say Goodbye

My last blog I had discussed a situation that had occurred between my friend S and I. Recently after a period of not talking, S messaged us again in the same group. Needless to say, our friendship is over. I realized that no matter how much you care for a person, no matter how much you want to try and help a person, no matter how much you think sharing you past in efforts to help and to build a friendship with a person, if they do not care about anything other than themselves, it is pointless. It is a waste of time and energy. 

Friendships.

Hello all, Kat here. Recently a friend of mine, let's call her S, messaged one of our mutual friends and I in a group chat. We had all three met when we were in Korea together for a scholarship program through our Korean adoption agency. These two women were literally what kept me together when I was having a hard time and we were able to create a friendship that lasted even when we returned from Korea.